Oops, sorry.
I say just go and have fun! How is that an "its fixed" event? It does show 2 things.
1. You can have fun
2. You are OK at having fun w/ him

I know what you are getting at. If my W wanted to go to a concert w/ me, I would think (having not been here and DBing etc) that it was all fixed. Now that you know my background, I think you can see how I would understand this pt.

I do think if there is really no physical affection shown, it shows him you are willing to "try" to be in his presence. If he pushes, set a boundary. "lets just have some fun tonight honey (or whatever you used to call him or his name). WOuld that send the wrong signal?

Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.