My wife and I talked on the phone today about the usual kid stuff. Then she asked me about a friend of mine that just left his wife last week. I think I spoke to much and with some of the info I just gave her, might of killed my chances. What happened is that I found out well after the fact that he was having an affair with one of his co-workers, then left his wife, she was not in favor of him leaving. I talked to him only once and gave him my thoughts, which was stand up for yourself and your family. You screwed up, but it does not have to be the end. By the end of the convo with him I told him never stop fighting for his family. I told all this to my wife just now on the phone. The part that might get me in trouble is that I use to work with this same women for years. A couple of years ago she came on real strong towards me. Yes it was nice to have an attractive women showering you with compliments and such. I did talk to her a lot but only at work. My wife also knows her and while talking today asked if I had ever done anything. I answered honestly and did tell her that this women did try but I didn't and wouldn't have. I am thinking my wife thinks I did, only because of a convo we had a couple weeks ago when she told me that two years ago is when she stopped trying, this was the same time that this women was trying to pick me up. In some ways I am happy it came up, I never would of imagined that she thought I ever had a affair. So in the context of this talk, I didn't bring us or our marraige, but I unknowingly let her know that I had not, so that could be a good thing. Time will tell.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07