thanks Oldfool. Yep, divorce should be final today actually. I did not have to appear in court but met with my attorney yesterday to sign everything. The judge is waiving the remaining six weeks left on the "mandatory" six month waiting period in MI. I am getting quite a bit more in child support than the MI guidelines suggest so I'm happy with that. I'm sure its his guilt. He didn't object to anything.
I found out a month or so ago that this chick and him have been together at least since he left if not before....I don't know all the details and I don't care to know ever...I'll find out when its time I guess...it doesn't really matter in the whole scheme of things anyways...
He is still full of guilt whenever I see him. Just last week, he started crying when he came to pick up S4. I almost lost it too but I really wanted to burst out laughing...I think it kills him to see how well I'm doing...
Anyways, just thought I would check in.
Me 31 WAH 30 M 5 Together 14 years S 4 divorced 7/11/07