I need to know how lost and insensitive I am being, especially if any ladies read this thread your views would be much appreciated.
My W's biggest complaint is my control. I control everything, money, house, jobs, etc. Now in the next breath she says she wasn't taken care of and wants to be taken care of. When we get to how she wants to be taken care of, outside of the biggest one "Affection," she wants a man to take care of the very things she said I controlled. The money, house, cars.
I know there is something here I am not hearing from her. I keep listening and replaying this over and over, but I just can not get out of the circular logic.
The only thing I can think of is maybe a timing issue, I was controlling before so much so, that now she is tired and wants to be taken care of. Does that makes sense with what she is saying?
