Well enjoy your vacation with your kids!

I can tell you my H only gets any amount of time with our kids every other week. He has however seen them at least once a week maybe for only a few minutes. I know he misses them like crazy and he doesn't like being without them. On the other hand this was his decision and so far he's still hanging to it despite missing the kids so much. I think he may be starting to break down his wall but nothing major and still throws out a negative every once in a while. I do think more time away from the kids makes them at least miss them more. I don't know if it makes them stop and think. I'd like to think that it does.


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07