Taking my first vacation since this all started. Our son and I are going to drive south and pick up my oldest son on the way. We will be gone for a week down to San Diego. I have a son from a previous marriage and in the beginning I hardly saw him because of the circumstances and when I was not with him I wanted to save that marriage more than any other time.
Not that it should or will matter but I have a question. This will be the first time my current wife will be without son other than the back and forth he does between us every couple days. He has been gone for a week at a time, but we were still together at home while he was gone. Is their any chance that her going for over a week with him out of town and her being on her own she may actually see what a divorce causes. That everyday when she comes home, no one is around. That if we get a divorce, this will be the norm, or am I just dreaming.


M 41
W 33
S8
S17
Bomb 3/11/07
S 3/28/07
New beginning? 8/31/07