Thx 789, I guess that's all we can do. Once I realized I had no control over the sitch it was a lot easier to deal with.
"We can't control anything. But can create everything. "
Not sure where I heard this one. Words to live by.
Good luck as well. BM
Originally Posted By: 789
Well she told you she didn't know what she wants. Other than the part of you originally bringing up the subject, you seemed to handle it very well with your answers. With that said I guess I would say exactly what you said.
Originally Posted By: BrokenMarriage07
I know I've seen a lot of people on here reply to a question like that by saying. Did u get served papers? If not then shut up and keep dbing. Just give it time and space.
Yes it rips into the heart daily. You can only do what you can do. If you have the want and willpower to give her that space and time do it. I know I struggle with it everyday. I know I want it to work, I know I will try for as long as possible, I know I am driving myself crazy. I am really for the first time trying to detach, and give it the best chance possible.