The W went to a L today. Supposedly it is to see what her options are. When I found out, I got down on myself because I know she wants out. If she could leave right now she would. I haven't said anything about the R in a weeks time now. I think she believes it's because I have come to the decision that I can't do anything about it and I am just trying to keep the peace. In part that is true.
I can continue trying to be her friend. I continue to support her until she is able to stand on her own. But while I am doing that, I can't detach. As long as I am feeling that she needs me, I can't move on. And if she wants to leave, I need to detach and move on.
I want to ask her how her visit went today, but I know she will not tell me. She missed her session yesterday and i believe she was upset about that. So, if I ask her I may get the brunt of that and a weeks worth of holding stuff in. Basically, I don't what to do.
