W calls, she is working tonight and I have S. I'm typically off around 5, but to pay for the house that we bought 1 month before she moved I have to pick up extra work. So I have a sitter for tonight and I have to run downtown and meet a client for about an hour. W wants me to take S to a pool party between 4:30 and 6:30. I tell her it sounds fun, and to bring his swimsuit and stuff over and I will try and make it but it will be tight.
"Well I told him about it and S has been talking about it all day, he will very dissappointed if you don't take him."
WELL GUESS WHAT, don't make promises on my behalf unless you know I can keep them. WHY ARE YOU EVEN MAKING A SCHEDULE ON MY BEHALF!!! YOU LEFT ME AT HOME!!! Now S will be mad about the party and at 2 will just think daddy didn't take him the party.
I kept my cool, really trying to DB hard, told her I would try all I can. She knows the client as well and they are feeding me with a lot of work, she knows I have to jump when the ask.
Told her thanks for telling me about it, and to have a good day, said by and hung up.