Slight recap: Hubby and I still are pretty much in the same spot. Things got slightly better after I broke down and told him earlier this year I was ready to leave him if things didn't get better. He finally went to a urologist, got a clean bill of health, got samples of a drug for his ED and last month was the ony month where we had sex once a week for two or three consecutive weeks in a row. He also got his testosterone level checked, which is normal.
However, it's been almost about a month since we have had sex. We did go out of town the last week in June, but we didn't have sex at anytime then because we had a friend join us until the wee hours of the night everyday we were there. (I hadn't seen this friend in 15 years, and we only had four days to reconnect in person, but I realize that that's not much of an excuse either).
Last Saturday night, we went to a concert and stayed out close to 3 a.m. Early Sunday morning, I tried to initiate, but nothing happened. I slipped him an article a while back trying to encourage him that even if he didn't feel like having sex, if his partner did, he should oblige. He mentioned that, but we never ended up having sex anyway because he said he was too tired. *sigh*
I may set up an appt. w/a DivorceBusting coach, as this up and down thing is getting to be too much. I am tired of rejection and excuses. If the DB consultation doesn't work, then H and I might as well move on.
