More Growing and Healing

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Frank_D,
I've just discovered you and your thread. I've been impressed. I think our sitches may be similar too.

Writing fast, 'cause I'm at work and will have to get back to it, I have two questions/comments for you, and anyone else who cares to express an opinion.

1. Can I get in on that 800 number conference call? Wow.
2. Your 4 agreements sound great. As always though, simple ideas can be hard to put into practice. For me, the 3rd agreeement is confusing. How can I ask questions of my W and express what I want when I shouldn't initiate R talks? How can I express what I want to my W when I need to give her space? I know it's tricky. I think part of the answer is ask once then drop it. You don't need to repeat yourself. Another part is that she knows what I want, I don't have to say it again. But...

Thanks.