Hang in there. Your feelings are normal ones. Sometimes it does get so exhausting that you wish it would end, for your sake.
I too fear the same in regards to my W. Bandaids are exactly what they are, it is such a good description of these OM/OWs. It is so bizaar that they cannot see the consequences of their actions.
Stay strong, you have done as much as can. Let him now come to the realisation that maybe you have had enough and have conceded that life might me better without him.
That is the way I will approach things when my W gets back from her holiday with OM tomorrow.
