Tired,

Tell him this:
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IM sick of the working till all hours and him coming home nasty and mean. Its like he just doensn't want to be here. I really thought I could handle being alone all the time, and Im beginning to think that its because I'd rather be alone then deal with him being mean.
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To me that is the part that is the unvarnished truth without a bunch of "girly" stuff thrown in. He needs to hear this and he needs to understand that his behavior makes you feel like you have a foot out the door.

Karen