Reading over your sitch it looks like you and I are at about the same point. My W has not moved out but we are basically as she puts it” Room mates". But I can see the tide is changing. I am to at the point of trying out the 'anchoring' touches. I know it's hard not to want things to go faster. But WE need patients. Good luck buddy Let’s you and me show THEO what we are made of. And I don't mean out on the prairie
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know