NDDT - it doesn't have to be right away. Find a day where you will have had lots of sleep, and don't have the kid. Then set aside a few (or more) hours and know it out.
C_K - I agree with your opinion a lot. It was much easier for my OM to go after my W because they had bonded and become friends than it would have been for him to go out and find one in the field. One of his friends told me once that he is really anti-social.
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link