I am trying to go into this showing him that the 3 hour ride to get there will be FUN. I will drive, he can sleep. I have made a few CD's of all the old 1980's music he loves. I KNOW his 20-something gym bunnies are NOT into his favorite 80's music, what they were, umm, six years old back then?
Just me, in the car, singing away, smiling, not talking.
I have 60 more days to "work on him". Somewhere in that time I hope to get him back to the post sessions. He also agreed to see the MC weekly too. I've got a game plan.
IF all else fails this weekend. I am going dark. Way scary dark. Shutting down the email account he has access to, moving the dogs to a kennel and taking the horses with me to Texas where I am doing a 1 month veterinary internship. No contact = no contact.
ME 40 HIM 48 Married one year. First for him Second for me Proud parents of a baby girl