I think about two of us here at work that have WAWS both due to OM and both in early 40's . There are plenty of 35+ single women previously divorced or otherwise in this town that would love a new relationship so why do these OM's seek out M W's ?. The answer is twofold , the singles are well adjusted have delt with thier issues and would see right through one of these guys. The W in an unhappy relationship is an easy target. The OM (usualy a workmate or similar) just needs to pay some attention to them , and start to meet those emotional needs and the rest just follows. This may be true also where the genders are reversed as well but I dont have any experience of that.
Now if these OM's or OW's started out as true friends with good intentions then they would have encouraged our partners to try and work out thier problems within the M.
