Well that didn't take long I saw her texting and on computer while I fixed her fan(epoxy). I was going to walk down form upstairs and she was on the cell phone saying that she had to go somewhere else after she saw me. I went into the basement to finish, I was gluing and she walked from the room next to my work area to the bathroom (didnt see me). My heart started pounding I walked over there and flipped her off. I couldnt believe I did it. She said did you flip me off. I just walked away. I didnt even know she was down there. I just put another nail in my coffin.
Early on I talked her into a background check. she helped me get his b-day and other info. He came out clean not a convict murder, at least he hasnt been caught yet.
You know what? the more i think about it the more i hate him. She said earlier it has less to do with him than I think. was that before or after he told her to ask me to move out? that &^$%&*%
When she came up to me she said you dont talk to me all night and then you flip me off. She came up to me and I explained my fustration, her walking out laughing and bubbly. She said she didnt know I was down there either.
d16 finished summer school today with an A+ and also started her first job at our grocery store. She asked if report card was refrigerator worhty. I said it's billboard downtown worthy. Proud Dad!
Sometimes I think it would be easier to throw in the towel, relationship wise. I have to know myself that I did every thing possible to show the one I love how much I love her. Even if it's giving her space right now. I still am going to fix myself. I wish the hurts would just slow down for a while.
You know, usually it is the couple about to give birth who goes nutty at the end of the pregnancy. In this case it's the soon to be grandparents.
Just slow it all down. Your wife has never met this man. It is likely that the reason he is finding girlfriends via the internet is because the women who know him have already rejected him. Once she meets him she can begin to form an opinion. It's likely she'll be back home with her family pretty soon. In the meantime it's too early to know.
Your wife is in love with a fantasy. Maybe her fantasy will pan out, and then maybe it will be a bitter disappointment.
In the meantime, try to focus on bringing a new child into the world. This should be a happy time for your family.
Before this started we both agreed we didn't nessasarily like the thought of being called grandma and grandpa. So she picked Noni (italian for grandma) and I picked G (like they call Tony Suprano 'T'). All the other common names are taken by our familys. Im ok with anything now. I was looking forward to telling my wife she is a hot grandma like on 40 Year Old Virgen.
