I dont know about "hating" the OM. They are not even worthy of any space in our mind. In a way I can see how an OM can get sucked into all of this. I mean think of all of the evil person we have become in the Walkaways Mind....if she can sell herself on all of this spew, it certainly would not be so hard to sell it to a willing (fill in the blank)
I guess if for myself the last time I did have a real conversation with my wife, and she told me that she is not coming back, eluding to a more perminant solution......... I did tell her that I did not plan to make it easy.
I plan on being patient, even though somedays it is so hard. On a slight positive note, when she came and got our girl tonight. We had a short but at least not a negative conversation.
I know for myself what I really need is to find a way to do more clearer thinking, and find some direction for myself..... I dont know if that shows in my posts but I am all over the place. The not knowing and confusion does that to me.......
