Limbo sucks. Imagine where you will be in 20 years. Do you really see yourself growing old with him? ( I know you will not be old in 20 years since you are so young...) If that is something you can visualize, if that vision makes you feel serenity, then you need to fight, fight , fight for your marriage even if it means stepping back and waiting. Gosh, I hate limbo. My H and I were apart for almost 9 years. I never thought I would take him back after such a loooong hiatus of being platonic, but he said we always belonged together. I hope this is just another bump, but that it will not take another ten years for us to stop being stupidly apart. Even if things do not seem to be "fixed" after the weekend, the seeds will be planted. You don't even have to be irresistable, just be yourself. He knows you, he just does not know himself.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
