Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[Trixi]

I talked to my girlfriend about that latest developments;
she was very shocked to hear that I am still cooking, still having sex with him, still letting him sleep in our bed and he gets to go and do whatever he wants because, after all, he told me that he wants to separate. So, if he wanted, he could go out every night, never come home and I wouldn't be able to say one thing about it. (Having said that, he has only gone out Saturday night, so it's not like he is out tomcatting around every night.)

In other words, he is getting exactly what he wants and I am getting far less than I want.

She feels that we're past the DB'ing stage. He told me what he wants and I should make him feel the consequences of his choice.

ARGH!!! I am so f'ing CONFUSED!