I've been a reading machine over the last week or so. As many people her suggested, I read the 5LLs book and saw so much that I think can help our M. But...how can I practice what I've read if I'm seriously DBing? I would like to have H take the "test" so I'm sure of his LL, but I don't think I should ask him to? What good does it do to know my own LL if H doesn't know it?
Trip - I am hoping that the new C we are seeing next week can help me more with dealing with the fallout of the gambling. I've come to the realization that it doesn't really fit in with what many people have experienced on this board, but I am taking the position that it is a problem that *I* am willing to work on dealing with. The only person I can change is myself, right?
