I don't understand. I don't care about the past but right now is your W seeing another man? And I assume this OM has a house? Is he married? Why would she want you to move when she could move in with him? Sounds to me she is in lala land. Has figured you cheated on her at one time so it's an OK life style. And is confused. Somehow she connected to this guy who is manipulating her. She didn't want to move but he told her to tell you to move? Is this guy a real-estate agent? DO NOT GO anywhere. You are not throwing your family out she would be TAKING THEM. If she leaves do not change the locks or your phone number. That way she cannot say you locked her out. I have had the same phone number for 25 years. The same number I had during my first marriage. That way my X wife could call my daughter who I had custody of. She has not called yet my d's 22&25.
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Last edited by husband; 07/11/0712:55 AM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know