He said (again half cocky) "Out." I said "Who with?" and he said "Friends." I said "I deserve to know, it makes a difference in my life too." He said "[PW] and [PW's latest boyfriend]." I didn't even think before this came out of my mouth: "Oh. So when are you moving out?"
Well, sometimes our true feelings just pop out, don't they???
This might be a good occasion for communicating with him IN WRITING, since he doesn't seem to remember what you have said. A nice note that details simply that: - YOU don't wish to have her in your lives - YOU don't wish to bein a relationship where your boundaries are not respectd. - YOU desire a marriage with honesty, respect and trust and won't settle for less in your life.
Make it all about you and what YOU want in your life, not about him and his failures, okay?
And I know I'v said it before but I'll say it again - he's showing you something about his character here. Without kids to consider, why exactly do you want to put up with this???
