LS, I'm so sorry, my heart is breaking for you. At this point we can not change their minds. We all try, but it's useless. It has to be their choice. God wants them to do right, but he gives us all free will. It pains him when we don't make the right decisions, but he still allows us free will. Don't move out of the house until you talk to a lawyer. It may be that she would turn it around and accuse you of abandonment. This is what happened to my friend's brother. He didn't want to disrupt the children's lives so he moved when he found out she was cheating for the second time. Now she is going around and saying that he abandoned his family she even had the nerve to tell their pastor this. It's amazing how they can turn everything around to their advantage, but in the end if we stay moral and strong we will be the one who can hold our heads high. You have admitted that you weren't perfect and repented, that's what God ask us to do. He does forgive us if we repent. If only our spouses would wake up, but we can't depend on that we have to take charge of our lives and take care of our children. Tomorrow will be a new day.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
