Well my last thread locked up - fresh start needed anyways!
H took the kids to Chicago for their flight out to California - gone for three weeks! This will be a great time for H and I to reconnect!
It was an awesome weekend. We started moving some of his stuff home - all his clothes and a lot of the food. We have the apt until the end of August but he wanted to come home ASAP.
Our friends are happy for us and feel we will be stronger b/c of all of this. It's great to have so much support!
I hope everyone is having a fabulous Monday!
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
wonderful. He wants to be home ASAP will be good. Careful of resentful emotions surfacing from your side. congrats again
M 38, H 38, two sons Met 20 years ago Married 13 years Bomb: Oct, 2006 DB: Started in Dec, 2006 H moved out for 3 weeks in Mar, 2007 H back home and piecing?
Its funny you bring up my emotions - already this AM I was crying in the shower so fearful of where we are heading, of H changing his mind once again. I feel it is diff this time, but I just need to watch my fear level - it's so tough to keep in check...
Still taking one day at a time - baby steps!
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
Hey--this is so normal (at least from my experience). You have to choose to consciously fight the fear...SOOO much harder than it sounds. Hang in there hon!
You said it! I remember helping him move out to this apt - THAT was one of the worse days of my life. We are slowly moving him back - did all his clothes, toiletries and some of the food. We have the apt thru Aug. so we can take our time. We did use the apt pool Sun. afternoon. But since our kids are not home we have total freedom at the house we do not need to use the apt for any date nights!
This AM was working out and watching videos - so many songs make you sad. Don't get me wrong I love the fact he is home but there seems to be more of my hurt bubbling to the surface these last few days...
Baby steps...
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
You said it! I remember helping him move out to this apt - THAT was one of the worse days of my life. We are slowly moving him back - did all his clothes, toiletries and some of the food. We have the apt thru Aug. so we can take our time. We did use the apt pool Sun. afternoon. But since our kids are not home we have total freedom at the house we do not need to use the apt for any date nights!
This AM was working out and watching videos - so many songs make you sad. Don't get me wrong I love the fact he is home but there seems to be more of my hurt bubbling to the surface these last few days...
Baby steps...
HB
Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing
