Chicki Unless he is a bigger Ahole than you describe, I dont think his intention is to throw you out. His problem is he is now out of "control" and wants to exert some of that back. TO diffuse, you could just step aside and agree, would that kill you mentally? It may diffuse him completely?
CVA
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.