Interesting that she wanted back with you and is still openly involved with OM. I say kill her and him, then live the rest of your life on the run......OK I guess that would not work.....I think you need to ask yourself a few questions, but first you need to try and answer them as detached from your W as possible.
Are you letting her back in the house out of fear of losing her?
Are you being a doormat?
Do you feel that she really is ALMOST over the OM and is going to recommit herself to your M?
I ask these questions because I was gripped by the fear of losing my W and made bad decisions because of it. My advice is to look into yourself and define who you are and then make your decisions based on that. Do not let fear and anxiety rule you or your decisions. GAL, figure out who you are and stick with that. My hope and prayer is that your W will recommit herself to you and your M. But your M got into the state that it is for a reason, and you are 50% of that reason. Who is Hopefilled? What does he want? What does he stand for? If you feel you should ask her to leave again because she is walking all over you then you know your answer......
