Light,
I would not move. Why would you move? you know where you want to be.

"She wants to decide if she wants to work on our marrage, be single, or w/him. "


I would say go for it. If she want to realy see what it will be like divorce the she needs to be out of the house and be on her own.,

Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know