would like some advice

[light switch]

I'll tell you later what I'm doing for myself.

I need some quick advice.

She called me at work and asked how long is this going to go on. Meaning me living there and her sneeking around, talking to him.
She said if we sell the camper we could put most twards the bill and use some for me to move out for a couple of months, for her to decide what she wants. She said it doesn't have as much to do with him as I think, its more about us. She wants to decide if she wants to work on our marrage, be single, or w/him.
She said that she will not stop talking to him until she knows, she doesn't want to wonder in the future if he was the one and she didn't try.

I really dont want to move out, my councellor said thats the first step twards divorce and me loosing barganing power for kids if it comes to that.

I am going home right now and will check for advice when I get there.

thanks everyone.