Oh boy, thats a tough one. I would personally not wait till signing. Why? That is an emotional event despite the fact that she may be wanting it, it will be hard on her to do this. So no I dont think that is an appropriate time.

Just me thinking out loud.

Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.