Just got back from the gym, only second time going and now i am sooooo tired , did not realise how unfit i was lol. I must admit i feel better for it already, something for me .
Husband usually phones to speak to D3 twice a day, in the morning and at night and comes to visit at the house on a wed night for an hour as well as having her at the weekend. well, over the past eleven months seeing him so much has stopped me from detaching, so i text him today saying:
"Considering the fact that we are now getting divorced, i feel that i have to do what is emotionally best for everyone in order for D3 and i to move forward, so i am asking you to please only phone D3 once a day at tea time. I am willing to keep the wed night visit for now but i will have to see how it goes. I hope you understand my reasons for doing this".
My husband never replied to this message and when he phone to speak to D3 he never mentioned it at all. I know he got it because i have a thing on my phone that tells me if the message has been recieved or not. I am just trying to get myself emotionally healthy because D3 deserves that from me. I will see if my husband phones in the morning or not. I just found it strange that he did not make any comment.
Hope everyone is ok
Nicky
Me 34 H 33 D3 together 10 years married 2 years Bomb 22/8/06 (I feel empty) OW involved
, did not realise how unfit i was lol. I must admit i feel better for it already, something for me 
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