I can conversely say that your at an advantage NOT having kids. CVA is right, it would make it easier for you to make a clean break and start a new life. The whole ideal of no contact is to GAL and also give her a chance to see what life would be like without you.
She'll check in on you via mutual friends and acquaintance, they will be curious like that. If she comes back to you, that's great, if not, you've adjusted to a new life.
Yes I agree there is a very big advantage to having no kids, I would not like the thought of having them go through that, so I do sympathize with those that do.
I think at the moment & for the last few days or so..I have prepared myself for the big D talk & now i'm like...argh!!! frustration is killing me. sorry
Thanks for taking the time to read my crap & to reply to it
