D12 is doing OK , She has had plenty of time with W and W being at home during the day has made it easier for now. She sees going and staying with W as a bit of fun and if you were at our house last night you would have seen a normal happy family talking to each other at dinner. S(19now) Is working and coping well , dosnt like it at all but just getting on with things. S16 is the one that is struggling the most. He is close to W and I would guess feeling abandoned by her. Yesterday when W went to our house to be with them he went out for the whole afternoon not getting back until dinner , after dinner he went to his room and only came out once she had gone. He was nice to her but I couldnt help get the feeling hes avoiding her right now. I will see if he wants to talk over things tonight.
