the last time she went out I did exactly what you propose and it went fine but she has brought it up w/BFF and CVA's C!
OK, so 1 time does not make a difference and I think that is the thing. She is waiting to see how I will do time and time again, my question now is will it matter? I hope so.
Yes, you have to demonstrate the change consistently at time. And I think it will matter. You can't be sure, but I think it will. And even if it doesn't, isn't this a change you want to make for you anyway? You'll be a better man for your next R, with your W or someone else.
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M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link