OK, so 1 time does not make a difference and I think that is the thing. She is waiting to see how I will do time and time again, my question now is will it matter? I hope so.
I think that's exactly right. As to whether it will matter? I hope so for you, too. But in truth, it has to be about you... this is a behavior that you should (IMHO) want to change for you...and with any luck, it may have an impact on your W as well.
As for your W's comment, i doubt she views herself as a "worst W". She probably really wanted to help... I don't know whether you've read or thought about the 5LL, but do you know if any of your W's might be acts of service?
