AA - I completely feel for you and your situation. My hubby left when I was 5 months pregnant and moved back in seven weeks ago when the baby was born in a "roommates only" situation. He is living in the basement but we are successfully co-parenting our newborn and 3 year old. Everyone's advice here is right on target, though I know it's so difficult to hear and to do. If you need to talk, please just let me know. You need a wonderful support system throughout this pregnancy so feel free to vent whenever!