Thank you both for the support. A bit more of the same to report W was home yesterday with Kids when I got home from work. Was dressed nice and all made up , I thought overkill for hanging out with kids. W had baked bread ( first time for at least a year ) and we all had a very nice dinner together . W stayed on and watched some TV. then left for her place. She has backed off on the Hugs and Kisses a bit but I expected that. She will have D12 tommorrow night so I wont see W now for a couple of days and then she has her sister visiting so there will be a lot less contact over the next 5 days then next week its school for Kids and work for W and thats when the reality of the sitch will sink in.
She seems pretty determined to follow this path for now. I actualy feel quite confused right now as to what I should be doing. I have been apreciative of the nice dinners and things have been relaxed between us so thats good . I think I will just continue with the no pressure , validating what she is doing but work in the Acts of service and use any time together as quality time. See how this goes for another week and evaluate the results then .
Other than that I feel terrible today , I just hate how this is affecting the Kids.
