Maybe that tough guy routine is covering up for a lot of cowardice and insecurities. I heard my H needs to find a way home without losing face. WTH? I am the one who should feel humiliated and he needs a way to save face?

Ponygirl, I hope you hang on to true hope. My friend said she was wary of the outcome of the marriage weekend workshop. She said her husband came back a changed man, but she thought he would revert back to his old ways. After 18 months he is still a brand new husband. She is keeping her eyes open, but so far, so good. I wish my H had enough care in his heart to go. My mom says that she can tell he does not even love me 10%. She said I would be able to work with 20% , but 10% , no. Sad face.

Last edited by mkultra; 07/10/07 08:38 PM.

Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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