Just a little thought occurred to me today while at work, previous to this I was coming home tonight & was going to call her & ask her what it she wants... divorce? if so please go ahead with your plan if it's truly what she wants. However, back to what I was going to say. She has not actually asked or said she wants a D, well not directly anyway. She has asked me what I think about the D & that it has to be me that files....Call me slow but I did'nt think of this until a few hrs ago.
I have not been calling W & I said this in my previous post, there does not seem anything to say. I may call her in a day or so & just say Hi, test the water & see if she mentions anything about the D, if she does not, then I guess thats quite positive.
I keep telling myself, if she wanted to talk she would call me, is that the right attitude? i'm not sure.
I read other threads & the same advice has been given to me, that is...Leave her/him alone & let them contact you!...However, it always seems to be advice from those that have some kind of regular contact with thier SO. I would like to ask, given my sitch with no kids & no contact fast coming, would you be happy to follow that advice?
