I see part of the problem with H is that he is always focused on what he wants and what he thinks is in the best interests of you and the kids. Your opinions aren't valid to him because he knows all. This sounds a lot like the old me -- the money and all! Nothing you ever do is good enough -- it must be done EXACTLY how he wants it, whenever he wants it, or it just isn't right (he will find something to be critical about). Does this sound about right?
