CVA - Thread 2, Hold mode

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Yep, this came up in our last Separation and for a while she would (i) ask me if what she was wearing was Ok and (ii) call, then it stopped, so I started in again!

So here we are, I have NO thoughts about ability to control, so yes, the last time she went out I did exactly what you propose and it went fine but she has brought it up w/BFF and CVA's C!

OK, so 1 time does not make a difference and I think that is the thing. She is waiting to see how I will do time and time again, my question now is will it matter? I hope so.

BTW, while I was in a neck brace (poor me syndrome) her friends wanted to go out and said stuff in emails like "cant you get a sitter to help CVA with the kids? we really want to see you..."

She replies with, "I cant go, if I went I would be the worst wife on the planet!" this is about 1 month before she dropped the bomb!

Thoughts?