She takes all of this as controlling (i) what she wears, all I want is for her to say "honey, is this too much" or just actually care that I say it is too much. There is a difference between cleavage and boob! dont you think? and (ii) controlling who her frineds are!
It is controlling. Are you focused on you or her? Is she your child or an adult? Is she capable of making decisions like this on her own (regardless if they are the decisions you would prefer)?
Originally Posted By: CVA
BS, I would expect that if I were hanging around a bunch of superficial jerk-offs who wanted to drink and get noticed by women (i.e. the clothse part on her side) that she would say, "honey, I am not sure I approve..." and I would have to respect her wishes as someone who is concerened.
And then she would be attempting to control you. This is not about fair. Two wrongs don't make a right. This is about what you have been doing, and what you can do differently to get a different result in your R.
Hope it helps, Nomo
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