During our mediation sessions, my W said at one point that all she ever wanted was for us to be equals. For so long I pretty much controlled everything in our M. When she said this, I validated and said I know you did, and I'm sorry that this wasn't the case.
So for my WAW, the partnership in decision-making was a huge issue too. I wish I would've had the foresight to recognize it and make it right before things went south, but at least it is recognized now and I know I won't make the same mistake twice, with or without my W.
