Great new and improved post CVA!

I would try not to wonder too much about what might have been said to the C. You will just drive yourself crazy. You have an invite over (again) tonight and it sounds like you have been spending a lot of time there. Try not to set your expectations too high though. Sounds like you are making progress so try to keep on keeping on with what you have been doing.

From the sounds of it, your W hasn't thrown in the towel but is cautiously waiting to see if the new improved CVA is here to stay. Like you said you have been through this 3 other times. I can understand if you W isn't sure about jumping back into the M head first. She has been down this path a couple times and keeps landing back where she started. Keep showing her this is new path that ends up somewhere she will want to stay.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.