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Hi Lisa!!

Good to see / hear from you.

Your attitude and thus, aptitude are shining today! You know exactly what you want for your M AND you are working on getting there. You are being supportive of B, mindful of your actions and interactions, all the while being patient as a saint. BRAVO, Ms. Cribbs! What you have accomplished is detachment, while maintaining your sense of self, family and love for B. This is a very hard place to get to. Many on this board get one, maybe two out of the three. You ROCK!

I only have one thing to add, and this is for B, from you. As he progresses and you are confidant his intentions are sincere... Thank him for his efforts. Make sure he knows you believe in him and will support him with his efforts. You will be able to pick up on his highs and lows. Be supportive but strong. Stand firm and confidant, let him know he can conquer anything if he chooses. Be to him, what we are to you.

Keep us posted, many here are following your threads and find inspiration from your strength. I haven't said this for awhile... Patience, patience, patience.

Steve

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I'm glad you are at a place you are happy with Lisa. Keep up the good work.


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Hi Lisa,

I'll second, er, third that... you sound great...grounded, sure of yourself. Glad that B is getting the help. Awesome stuff.

Be well,

Sven


Never sacrifice the great for the good. Sometimes the beauty of grace is that it makes life not fair.

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Lisa,

Good news! B really seems serious this time, and I know you're taking it s l o w l y.

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