Frustrated and Saddened

[waw1978]

Stew I agree with the other folks. I wouldn't leave the condo. I would be business as usual if I were you. Not mention the R, not even mention her leaving. Heck, I would sleep where ever it is you normally sleep. Let her be the one to decide to sleep on the couch or in another room. Esp if she has said she wants to leave. I am not saying this in a punitive way, but you may be surprised and she may crawl into bed next to you, she may not. But I guess its all about putting the ball in her court. Who knows she may broach the subject but I wouldn't bring it up. I would wait and see, you may be surprised.

I know that for the first few weeks of this separation with my H I was still sleeping in the same bed with H. Now we are taking turns staying at the house with D4 so she can sleep in her own bed. Mostly he gets to stay at the house and I am at my Moms until I can move into a duplex that I have been waiting for. '

Neither one of us has slept on the couch to date.