I have actually made a few freinds and there is one whom we even exchange phone numbers & we call eachc other all the time.
So would you say that her moving onis what it took for you to seek professiojnal help as foar ar your anger issues?If you dont mind me asking a few questions since you seem to understand or read where my H is coming from. My H has had anger issues since his childhood steming from his father hwo also has same issues long w/ alcoholism.
I love my H dearly and I want him to get better,but he needs to seek it himself. I dont know how much more insanity I can take. My biggest 180 from way back when this all started was to stop reacting to his temper tantrums and his pushing my buttons.He loves drama and when there isn't any he must push my buttons BUT when he was at home he even admitted things were running smoothly as far as his biggest complaint for our arguing. We got to a point we did not know how to communicate without arguing. I noticed as I stopped reacting and started letting things roll of my back he would calm down. Even his foul mouth started to diminish-big one!! Sometimes as he watched sports and was about to curse he would catch himself look around and would stop before he's say it!! His father was a big time adulterer but he did not leave my MIL until about four years ago where he came over here to the states and left her behind out of the country and is now living w/ OW. My H use to frown at his father and now (just like my MIL says) his father is his best freind! He is all the time over at his dads w/ his OW.
I hope one day if not too late my H will get to where your at. Does your ever show signs of regret and or wanting to come back? She would be a fool not to.
