She doesn't probably even know what she wants, this is not unusual! They will be back and forth for awhile, thats why its important to give her the space, and no pressure. You need to show her the support in a very subtle way, nothing in your face, because that will scare her off. patience, patience, patience! use it as a mantra!!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!