Hi Chicki,

Something to think about....one line & back to your "Drama".

You get the maximum benefit out of this site by following (& really thinking about) other poster's situations. Almost all of them have similarites to yours, to believe otherwise is misunderstanding our purpose here.

Much effort & empathy goes into responding to other people & their attempts at bettering their situations & themselves.
By extending yourself, it tells them you have taken the time & energy to learn some of the skills from theirs & will perhaps add them to yours.

Drama, IMO, is best left out of interactions w/S's, it only serves to escalate & poison.

I apologize for coming off as blunt. We have all been in the same place @ one time or another, you can bet on that.

Hope to hear from you,

Sunny

Last edited by warm&sunny; 07/10/07 05:49 PM.

M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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